Dating texting and calling rules
Or perhaps, you want the person to know he or she only looks good in the dark.Sarcasm and bitterness aside, I believe people follow this rule because they are too nervous to call someone up for some afternoon delight. We are by no means "put together." We have no idea where we are going, what we want or what we are going to do when we get there. I’m not talking about the rules your parents made for you when you were 15 and screaming at your mom to let you sleepover at your boyfriend’s house. You shoot him a text, letting him know you had a fun night. Two days later, you're debating whether to write off that apparently perfect person you met on Saturday night, or to pitifully send another text because, maybe, the message didn't send. We spend our rent money on plane tickets, and we are always searching for something more.Cut the bullshit, and have a mature conversation if being exclusive is what you want.And if it’s not in the interests of you and your “friend,” then make sure you’re being safe.
As long as you are comfortable with yourself, and you are not breaking any laws, there should be no wrongdoing.
Personally, I’ve never been educated about the rules of relationships.
So following the so-called rules, including listening to my friends when they tell me not to text someone, has not been my forte. Every group of 20-somethings will tell you something different, but from my research, these are the most common rules of dating and sex: You must not date anyone younger than you, or anyone who is "too old" for you.
You must never assume the person you are sleeping with is only sleeping with you.
Why People Follow the Rule: Our generation has officially ruined relationships, and casual sex is becoming very casual in our society.